I hope we enjoyed our last session together, here is another topic born out of my conversation with a close friend.
I have looked deeply into life and have realised that the world would have been a better place if women could stop adding pain to one another. Women, we are the main reason a lot of us are hurting. To be honest, everyone cannot have that perfect life and perfect body but the rate at which we shame each other just to elevate ourselves is sickening.
If you cannot be in someone’s life to bring joy then you do not belong there. Come to think of it, reasons why men cheat on their wives is because a woman has agreed to his excesses. How can you know that a woman has a steady relationship and seem happy in it and all you do is think of ways to destroy it. Why do we really hate ourselves so much? I still cannot understand why we do what we do to each other.
Look at the pressure to look in a particular way is because women like us have made it look like if you do not look that way then you are not beautiful enough to be in the world with the rest of us. We all must not look the same way or have the same body shapes. We all must not be light skinned or dark skin. We are just so unique in our own ways and together we can make the world even more beautiful.
Let us stop all these body shaming, jealousy and envy. Let us stop this unnecessary competitions. Just because you feel someone looks better or has better than you should not be a licence for you to hurt that person or better still live a fake life to try and meet up the trend. I am fade up with all these insults on women just because a few would not behave themselves. This is a sound off to all those women who in one way or the other try to put unnecessary pressure on others or destroy what others have. We are meant to unite to make the world a better place, rather we tear each other apart with our very hands.
For women who cheat with men who are married-stop being another woman’s pain all in the name of hustling. When you know a man is in a relationship then stay away, if he wants you, he should do the right thing. We are the reason men will keep maltreating women. If he doesn’t see who to cheat with, he won’t but those that have it in their nature may use dogs😂😂😂😂but do not add to another woman’s pain.
Even the way I hear or read about how women talk down on us baffles me. Too much hatred and envy for no just cause. Make up your mind that you will be the change you seek and join hands together to make the world a better place.
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I am Dr. Christiana Stephen, a wife, a mom of 4 under 4 year old kids, a photo lover, makeup artist, a wellness coach and a lecturer. Motherhood for me is ongoing, its a period of learning and unlearning. I am passionate about a lot of things but most importantly helping mothers around the work reach their wellness goals comes as top priority. Hence, I have created this community for every woman out there. Feel free to be part of this amazing journey of motherhood and wellness. I will say raising this community is inspired by my experience and learning process. The main essence is to empower moms on the benefits of healthy living as well as the need to create a life work balance.
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